contents of a good life
A second aspect of an introverted feeling mental preference, what is valuable in life (conretely in the external world, not just ideas, concepts or inner feelings or moral/ethical convictions)? What matters? What feels imporant? What pulls me? What do I long for? What do I dream of? What pains me? What scares me?
authentic emotional connection and belonging
Reciprocal relationships where I can express real and honest feelings and receive the same in return; where I can "flow" freely without judgement or misunderstanding. Where I can connect and bond over things that matter to me and to them. People who are interested in me, and who I am interested in.
- having someone to call or go to when things are difficult or painful who you can tell exactly what is going on
- having people who
- having people who know your true insecurities and challenges
Obstacles: shame, preoccupation with self, inability to listen, not providing safety for others to open up like that (?)