Conscience. Humanity. Morality. Valuation. Care. Love. Romanticism. Freedom. Individuality. Strength. Assurance.
Characters: A hopeful child, a hopeless romantic, a calm and steady strength
Wishes and motivations: To find and foster love and beauty in the world. To love; to show others the beauty and goodness and importance in their selves; the true use and potential of the person they are. To foster care (for themselves and others) and inspire self-acceptance, authenticity and morality in others. To seek out and maintain beautiful, lovely, healing, good and precious people, interests, activities, expressions,
Priorities: How does this make me feel? How does this make others feel and thus, is it good or bad? What are the intentions behind this? What is in this person's heart? What values does this person hold and how does it affect people? What does this represent? Is authenticity and freedom permitted? Does this build people up or break them down? Is this humane or not? Does this drive someone closer or further away from their heart?
Songs: "Everything Is Romantic"
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"I love a good vibe."
"I know you don't see it yourself, but you are warm, safe, kind, caring and so important for the people in your life."
Adaptively: Is grounded in their own emotions and feelings about things and people. Kind and thoughtful.
Breakdown points: Self-doubt by not understanding my own feelings and reactions; emotional invalidation; being invalidated; being disrespected; being treated unfairly; shame; fear. This makes me spiral into a confused and emotional state where the usual resolute and self-assured Fi gets shut down by T, which wants to figure everything out. Staying in unfitting/unfulfilling/inathentic paths or environments: doing things just because he "should", environments where he can't express himself authentically or has to "fake it" to fit in, bureaucratic, pointless routines and regulations, constricting and over-scheduled routines and rules. Judgemental/shallow/demeaning people: . Overwhelm, stress and pressure. Failing/feeling aimless.
| Quetly self-assured, feels in place, at peace, comfortable. Prioritizes emotional needs and personal well-being. Empathic, sensitive and caring. Expresses opinions and states preferences and boundaries, clears up misunderstandings. Appreciative of life, beauty, people, love. Accepting of self and own shortcomings. | |
| Avoids expressing needs, limits, boundaries, emotions and opinions due to: fear of being seen as too sensitive or intense, being vulnerable, being wrong, being shamed, being further disrespected. | |
| Feels or fears being attacked, devalued, disrespected, disregarded. Feels both prideful and arrogant, and shameful and insecure. Confidence takes a blow, and anything could be reason for devaluation. Becomes judgemental, rebellious and moralizing, wants to "prove a point" or devalue others. | |
| Intensely emotional and reactive; tense, uptight, stressed, negative, frustrated. Confused about own emotions, intensely rigid about their rightness while also overanalyzing them due to confusion. | |
| Goes around with needless judgements about "those people" who somehow feel threatening to identity |
Possibilities. Alternatives. Fantasy. Dreams. Imagination. Hope. Potential. Confidence. Meaning. Wonder. Philosophy. Understanding. Enthusiasm. Weirdness. Quirkyness. Childishness. Awe.
Characters: A goofball, a crazy professor, an eccentric, a flanneur, a daredevil, a rebel, a child.
Songs:"Benny Hill Theme", "Elevation"
Wishes and motivations: To be stimulated and motivated and excited and optimistic by possibility. To figure out a way forward and to make something better.
Priorities: Does this inspire and excite? Does this open up for new and exciting possibilities? Does it allow for freedom? Is this interesting? Will this leave me open to choose differently again and again?
| Compulsively analyzes and plans in a desperate attempt to get life in order due to feeling completely overwhelmed, lost and hopeless. Can only see problems, negatives and obstacles, feels miserable and unhappy about living a life that feels inauthentic. Intense need to get things under control. Gets stuck in a hole of illogical thinking and unrealistic methods and goals which are never executed. |